The Real Dates feature helps you suggest a date to your match, right in your chat. Make sure your app is updated to the latest version.
See your match's dating style
The banner at the top of your chat shows the kind of dates your match enjoys. Update your own under Edit Profile > Details > Dating Style.
Send a date invite
Suggest up to 3 date ideas. Your match can pick one, suggest their own, or say they need more time.
- You can edit your options by tapping "Edit" on the invite until your match responds.
- You can send one date invite per chat.
Received an invite but need more time?
Select "I'm interested but need more time." The invite stays open until you're ready.
Can't send a date invite?
- Your chat has expired. Extend it first.
- An invite was already sent in this chat.
If your match is on an older app version, you can still send it – they'll be asked to update to see it.
Got an invite notification but can't see it? Update your app and the invite will appear in your chat.